“In terms of days and moments lived, you’ll never again be as young as you are right now, so spend this day, the youth of your future, in a way that deflects regret. Invest in yourself. Have some fun. Do something important. Love somebody extra. In one sense, you’re just a kid, but a kid with enough years on her to know that every day is priceless."
― Victoria Moran,
― Victoria Moran,
I always figured that by the time I reached 60 I would have life figured out. I would be wise, having lived through so much. I would be passionate about doing new things, because I would understand just how precious life is and how quickly that all can change. I would be confidant, because I would have worked hard and been rewarded. And above all, I would hold the secrets to life.
I would reach out to younger people, and they in turn would look up to me and believe in my wisdom. I would back off and allow them to discover their own paths however, because after all that is how I arrived to my wise place in the world. I would spend hours among my flower gardens and my fingernails would never come clean. I would eat what I wanted, dress for comfort, still go barefoot, laugh often and love hard.
So imagine if you will, how bewildered I feel right now with just four short weeks to find that woman. I best get off my butt and get going I think. I have learned a few things in my 59 years, but not as much as I thought I would have.
I do know. . .
- kindness matters
- we must be gentle with ourselves, before we can be gentle with others
- no one, i mean no one thinks just as i do, or experiences my feelings
- and just like i think i do "it" the best way, others feel the same way
- so acceptance and non-judgement is important, as is understanding and forgiving
- i must remind myself often to practice this kindness, this acceptance, this understanding, and this forgiveness, because it does not always come natural to me
Practice is something I always thought was for soccer or learning to play the piano, but today I fully understand it is about living a full life also. And although they say, practice makes perfect, I doubt that is the case here. But I do know that we learn by practicing life in all kinds of situations and if we keep at it, with an open heart and mind, we will learn and our lives may not be easier, but they will be fuller.
Maybe that wise woman will show up one day, if I just get out of her way.
have a grand day,
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